My Astrology post totally got me thinking 🤔 about hugs. I kinda love them but, don’t really have much experience with them.
To say we “didn’t hug” in my family is an understatement. When I got a bit older (Middle School too Jr High) I learned about hugs but, was clearly awkward as hell and, probably, cringe in nature..wanting to hug but, doing it inappropriately or without proper permissions from people. Then there are the proper etiquette rules. Umm…wth are they? No, I’m asking..what are they?
I mean, how long does one hug? Do you count the seconds? Do you let yourself whimper? Cause, I think getting a hug might make me whimper and want to stay there for like 300 million years..if only that would be ok with people. Who can you hug and who can’t you? Is hugging Mickey Mouse ok? Even if you’re 47?! What about type of hug? Full- body or with a careful proprietary gap?
There are too many fucking rules! I just want to hug people. I want to hug them and not stop..because, let’s be completely honest here..if I get up the fucking nerve to hug someone..they mean a fuck-ton to me. I’m just… I’m just…shit. I think I just love people and can’t figure out how to get them to let me hug them 3 million times without it getting weird.. because..if there is a way to get to the golden free hug zone.. I’m never coming back!